We walk down that path each day - my six-year-old daughter and I - on her way to school. We must have passed within feet of the dead body. They cordoned off the path and we came home from school another way.

I refused to consider divorce - partly due to my pride, but largely due to my faith. I suspected that God saw things differently from me, that it was worth hanging in. It was.

As we've worked through many experiences, I've jotted down for myself some rules of thumb.

What has kept us together, despite pressures that often drive couples apart?

Mrs Judith Ward, of the Anglican Marriage Guidance Council in Melbourne, Australia, speaking at a seminar at Armagh, the Moral Re-Armament centre there:

The Bersani of today developed from the student who used to go with his friends to the poorer parts of town every Sunday to see what they could do.

Today, the 'professional foul' is no longer something which only the referee can spot, but a dangerous tackle that breaks all the rules. Violence on the field is reflected even more tragically by violence in the stands, and governments are forced to take action.

Another African leader, General Joseph Lagu, former Vice-President of the Sudan, also took part. As a guerrilla leader in the bush, he fought against the Arab North in Sudan's first civil war.

Inspired by the dream that India's Western Ghats might be re-afforested by the year 2000, over 60 senior college and university students from throughout New Zealand applied to join.